Friday, July 13, 2012

Rescue Me

Post below explains relevance of this song in relation to the experience detailed below

Swallowed Up in Christ


Last week I was at work. I was assisting the sweetest little boy with a fairly minor procedure. I was asking basic questions about their family. I was suddenly VERY overcome with emotion. I have no idea why, but I suddenly thought of the scripture that teaches that the sting of death is swallowed up in Christ.
I looked forward to coming home and looking up exactly where this scripture is located. I found it in Mormon chapter 7. Verse 5 reads 5 "Know ye that ye must come to the knowledge of your fathers, and repent of all your sins and iniquities, and believe in Jesus Christ, that he is the Son of God, and that he was slain by the Jews, and by the power of the Father he hath risen again, whereby he hath gained the victory over the grave; and also in him is the sting of death swallowed up". It was the part about the sting of death that really touched me. However, I was rather confused by this. The child that I was assisting was not terribly ill, nor were there any issues of death discussed in the conversations with his parents. I had NO IDEA why this popped into my head at this particular time. Despite all of this, I came home that evening and found this scripture. I also looked up some cross references to this scripture.
Fast forward to 6 days later at work (which was the very last day of the month). I worked what I would consider to be a fairly normal shift, and then stopped at Mc.Donald's on the way home from work. It had been a rather busy day, and I was starving. Unfortunately, right after eating, I remembered that the next day was Fast Sunday. I contemplated still opening my fast at that time, but, I decided against it, knowing that I needed to work the next day. I didn't want to fast for a shorter amount of time that what I was accustomed to. I decided that due to my lack of judgement in this situation, that I would fast on Tuesday, which was a day that I was already planning on going to the Temple. I was mad at myself because I couldn't remember the last time I had forgotten it was Fast Sunday. I was kind of frustrated that I couldn't join in with Josh in what we were planning on fasting for.
The next day was busy, as most of the Sundays are on the Sundays when I have to work. We got out of church at 2:00, and I had to be there at 3:00. This would be the last Sunday at my job (future blog post on this). Although I would still have to work some Sundays, I knew I would hardly ever have to rush out of church and hurriedly rush to work. I was looking forward to that, although it was definitely bitter sweet that this would be my last shift at a location that I had grown to love.
Within moments of arriving to work, a tragic course of events that occurred prior to a patient arriving at our facility led to a death taking place at our work. While I feel details related to this are very pertinent to the beautiful spiritual lessons I learned through this experience, I do not want to divulge anything that could be even remotely related to a HIPPA violation, and so I have intentionally left these details vague and sparse.
Because of some details related to the situation, we ended up having some family members in our facility for some time afterwards. This whole situation was heart breaking and difficult for all of us involved. A few minuted later, I had to go in the back area to retrieve something else for one of our other patients. Upon heading into the back area, I saw some family members sitting in the back area. At first, I just glanced over. I was kind of uncomfortable, and I wondered what I should do. My heart was broken in 2 for them, but I did not know what to say. There was also a language barrier between us. I didn't know what was deemed as "appropriate" by someone in my professional situation. I determined that I did not care what was professional. I felt SO BAD for this family,  and I was going to do what I could to lend comfort to them.
I walked over to 2 men and 1 women, gave each of them a hug, and told them that I was so sorry for what they had experienced. Although there was a language between me and them, I felt like they were thankful for the gesture.
As I later contemplated on this experience with the family members, I realized that this had taken place in the EXACT location that the scripture relevant to death had came to my mind just a few days prior to this experience.
I became intrigued as to how this scripture even popped into my head. As I studied, I found a cross reference that I loved even more than the original scripture. It is found in Isaiah 25:8. It reads: "He will swallow up death in victory; and the Lord God will wipe away tears from off all faces; and the rebuke of his people shall he take away from off all the earth: for the Lord hath spoken it".
Obviously, this family has been on my mind A LOT since this happened. I have wondered about them, prayed for them, put them on the temple prayer role,and hoped for their best. About a week after, I asked Josh to give me a blessing to help me sort out the feelings I was having in regards to all of this. It was unfortunate for me that I was leaving my job the very next day, as I never really got a chance to sort through the experiences we had on that day all together. I also heard a song in a sacrament meeting the next week that really helped me put some of my feelings related to this situation into perspective. That song is a post just above this post.
Between the experience, the scriptures, the blessing Josh gave me,and the beautiful lyrics to this song, I have learned so much:
1. Heavenly Father truly is SO MINDFUL of all of us. I think of the fact that he clothes the Lillies of the field. A loving Heavenly Father who is mindful of every detail on the earth, surely does not let one of his most precious children slip away without his comfort, nor would he allow this to happen were it not part of his eternal plan.
2. I needed to learn something from this experience. Timing was so important with this new job I have started. There are SO MANY reasons that I did not get this job the first time I applied. I feel very strongly in my heart that being there and experiencing this allowed me to feel the power and love of my Savior and Father. I believe that I was spared more time at this job to learn some valuable lessons from this sacred experience.
3. Tender mercies are all around each of us. Sometimes they are masked, but when peeling off a layer or two, we see ways in which something that may look like an unfortunate situation is actually Heavenly Father's way of picking us up, carrying us, and protecting us from disastrous outcomes that are not part of his plan for us.
4. We are all precious children (gifts) sent to one another from a perfect Father. He truly has a wonderful plan for each of his children.
5. When we are weak in mortality, it is our Savior that rescues us. Sometimes, all we can do is hold on, and allow him to lead us. Even in times when our lives cannot be spared to be continued in mortality, our Savior rescues us spiritually, and welcomes our spirit home to him and our Father.
6. I ended up changing the reasons I was fasting after this happened. I decided to fast for the family. I was touched when I realized that the primary reason I chose to fast was not a scenario that existed on Saturday night when I forgot it was Fast Sunday. This was a testimony builder to me that Heavenly Father is in charge, that he knows what is coming for us and all of his children, and that he will lead us in his will if we will submit ourselves to him.
7. The Savior of us all whispers safety to our soul. even in times when our mortal bodies appear to be in jeopardy or even danger of death, our spirits are ALWAYS safe as we entrust them to our Father and our Savior and Brother.
8. Those who pass away from this mortal earth life worthily have already won. They have conquered what we all have to continue to deal with on a daily constant basis. We are sad for us, but really, we should rejoice for those who have made it. They truly have already won. What a comfort.
9. When our story here on Earth ends, it will end with the Savior. Ironically, this is the same deliverer that will allow our story and sense of being to continue on the other side of the veil.So, even when our story ends here, if ended through the cornerstone of the Savior, our story has really just begun.
10. Regardless of our physical limitations here on Earth, The Savior will restore us and make us new.
11. That merely through our actions and examples, we can stand as missionaries, and that there is no sweeter work than bringing souls to their delieverer. Whether it be through a quiet example, through comforting words, or through active missionary work, nothing knows the sweetness of this Earth's experiences like bringing souls to Christ.

Sunday, June 24, 2012

I Would Be My Brother's Keeper.....

I have actually been having many wonderful experiences that should be on this blog, even though I have failed to actually post them. Life is so crazy around mid spring, it is all I can do to stay on top of everything. I am thankful for some time to update some of these significant experiences her on this blog:
One time around mid May, I had just dropped the kids off to school, and I needed to swing something by the dance studio. However, it was on a day that I had my niece, as well as Chaz with me. I didn't really want to get 2 kids out of the car, so even though I was already at the studio, I called one of the dance teachers and asked if I could just drive the items over to her house, so that I did not have to get 2 children out of the car (I was being just a tad bit lazy). Anyhow, the teacher stated that normally she would not care, except that she was just getting ready to walk out the door. Upon this finding, I determined that at this point, it really made a lot more sense for me to just run the items into the studio (especially since I was already there). So, I hauled 2 little ones out of the care seats, and took them in with me to drop off the items (which really wasn't too bad).
Afterwards, I was heading home, and my mind began reflecting on an accident that had happened just the day before. It was a tragic accident with a horrific outcome (2 teens had lost their lives). It was very close to my house, and I had spent some time on the previous day trying to figure out how such a bad accident had happened in such a place. As I was thinking about the accident once again, I decided that I would drive by to see the scene of the accident, and I passed the usual turn in to my neighborhood. However, immediately after, I contemplated on how terribly busy I was that day, and how spending the extra time to drive up there was really just a waste of my time, I decided to turn left at the next intersection, and head home.
Important disclaimer: All of this above information is important when considering the timing and the placement of what happened next.
So, I arrived to the intersection, and turned left. Immediately upon turning, I saw a mom walking down the side of the road without a sidewalk. She was walking through a thin layer of gravel while balancing a baby car seat carrier on her forearm, and carrying a plastic grocery bag on the other hand. Immediately upon seeing her, I felt an impression to offer a ride to her. However, almost as quickly, I justified why this would not be a good idea: I did not know her, I typically did not do such things for safety reasons, she was probably just quickly walking home from the store (since she was carrying a grocery bag), etc. However, just as quickly, I thought about how heavy that carrier must be (Being at the stage of life I am with Chaz, I was all too accustomed to carrying a car seat around on my forearm in such a manner, and knew they could become very heavy very quickly). I recalled a time several years ago, when I did stop to pick up a girl who informed me that she was late for her Uncle's funeral, but that her boyfriend and her had gotten into an argument, and that my stopping to give her a ride was an answer to her prayer. At about this time, I received a distinct strong impression that if I did not go back and get her, that I would regret it for the rest of my life.
As soon as this thought came to my mind, I could not turn my car around quickly enough. I turned into a circle to flip a U turn and go back. I was praying that I hadn't missed my chance, that I would be able to help this Mother get to wherever it was she was going. As I turned back on the main road, I saw this Mother trudging along with her heavy car seat, and her grocery bag. I pulled over on the other side of the road (as this was the only place to pull over), and rolled down the window closest to her. I called out to her: "Would you like a ride somewhere?". Somewhat to my surprise, she quickly said "Yes, if you are sure it's O.K." and started walking across the street.
At first, she just placed her carrier in my car. If you know the type A car safety, worry wart side of me, I had thoughts of the previous days accident on my mind. I couldn't help myself, and I came over to the baby's side to strap her in (hope that wasn't offensive to her sweet mom). As I walked over, this beautiful little African American baby starred at me with deep brown eyes nearly the size of golf balls. She seemed somewhat frightened that this stranger was buckling her in to her car. If any of you also know my obsession with someday wanting a beautiful African American baby of my own, I could have taken her home right then, and introduced my children to their new sister. ;)
After the baby was buckled in, I asked the mom where I could take her, and she pointed to the nearest main intersection, and told me to turn left. Her story quickly unraveled, and I became so humbled as I listened to her story. She explained to me that she had just recently moved here from Indiana. Her husband had lost his job, and they moved to Utah to be with her Mother and to try to find work for her husband. However, right after she had moved her, her husband's depression had taken a turn for the worst, and he had made a decision to end his own life. The mother told me that she could not bear to go back to the house where this had happened. She said that because of this tragic event, her 4 older children were staying with her Mother in Rose Park, and that she and the baby were staying with friends in West Valley. She stated that she needed a ride downtown to square away some money issues. She was staying with a friend that could not take her, but knew another friend that lived nearby, and said she could provide a ride for her. Not wanting to inconvenience her other friend too much, she had decided to walk from one friend's house to the other, yet realizing about half way in to the walk, how far away from one another the friend's houses actually were.
I finished driving her about a mile or so down the street. I gave her my cell number, and told her to call if she needed anything else. I never heard from her, but she seemed grateful for the ride, and her and her baby were on their way.
I was so thankful that I was able to help her. Especially after learning about her whole story. There is a quote floating around Facebook right now that states: "The world only sees the decisions that I make. Yet, they do not see the options I had to choose from".
I marveled at what I had envisioned of this lady's situation, yet the reality of the situation when I actually learned her story.
Back in December, I was thankful for a stranger that had helped me in THIS POST I know often times the only way we can fully thank someone for what they have done for us is to "Pay It Forward". I felt like I received the opportunity to Pay It Forward on this particular day, and for this opportunity, I was very thankful.
I have reflected upon what the extent of that regret would have been had I not turned around that day to help. Would I have seen a news story about this mom and baby maybe getting hit by a car, and I would have recognized them as the ones I hadn't taken time to help? Would the spiritual lessons I learned from this experience been withheld from me? Would I be forfeiting myself or my family blessings because I would have chosen not to help? Was this husband looking down on his wife's situation, and pleading with a stranger to literally lighten her load on this day? Could all of these scenarios be reality? Answers to these questions, I will probably never know in this life. But, I do know that I am thankful for the whisperings of the spirit that encourage us to see one another through this earthly journey that can sometimes be painfully difficult. I am thankful to have been my Brother's (or Sister's) keeper on this particular day. I am also thankful for the lessons I learned, and for the humility delivered with this beautiful experience.

Sunday, April 15, 2012

God Will Lift Us Up

The Salvation of Little Children

In planning my lesson for today, I ran across this great talk given back in April of 1977. I think it has such wonderul prophetic truth within. I wanted to keep it in a place of easy reference, so I decided to post it here on my blog:
The Salvation of Little Children


Nowhere does the Easter message of resurrection ring so triumphant.
Among all the glorious gospel verities given of God to his people there is scarcely a doctrine so sweet, so soul satisfying, and so soul sanctifying, as the one which proclaims—Little children shall be saved. They are alive in Christ and shall have eternal life. For them the family unit will continue, and the fulness of exaltation is theirs. No blessing shall be withheld. They shall rise in immortal glory, grow to full maturity, and live forever in the highest heaven of the celestial kingdom—all through the merits and mercy and grace of the Holy Messiah, all because of the atoning sacrifice of Him who died that we might live.
One of the great benefits of the recent addition to the Pearl of Great Price of Joseph Smith’s Vision of the Celestial Kingdom is the opportunity it affords to study anew the doctrine relative to the salvation of children. There are many valid questions which confront us in this field which are deserving of sound scriptural answers.
Two scenes showing the infinite love, tenderness, and compassion of the Lord Jesus set the stage for our consideration of the various matters involved in the salvation of children.
The first scene is set in “the coasts of Judea beyond Jordan.” Great multitudes are before him; the Pharisees are querulous, seeking to entrap; he has just preached about marriage and divorce and the family unit. “Then were there brought unto him little children,” Matthew records, “that he should put his hands on them and pray. And the disciples rebuked them, saying, There is no need, for Jesus hath said, Such shall be saved.
“But Jesus said, Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not, for of such is the kingdom of heaven.
“And he laid hands on them, and departed thence.” (JST, Matt. 19:13–15; italics added.)
The second scene is portrayed on the American continent. That same Jesus, the Compassionate One, risen and glorified, is ministering among his Nephite kinsmen. He has just prayed as none other had ever done before. “No tongue can speak, neither can there be written by any man, neither can the hearts of men conceive so great and marvelous things as we both saw and heard Jesus speak,” the Nephite historian records. (3 Ne. 17:17.)
Then Jesus wept, and said: “Behold your little ones. …
“And they saw the heavens open, and they saw angels descending out of heaven as it were in the midst of fire; and they came down and encircled those little ones about, and they were encircled about with fire; and the angels did minister unto them.” (3 Ne. 17:23–24.)
Jesus loves and blesses children. They are the companions of angels. They shall be saved. Of such is the kingdom of heaven.
Now let us record brief answers to the more commonly asked questions about the salvation of children.

What is a child and who are children?

A child is an adult spirit in a newly born body, a body capable of growing and maturing according to the providences of Him whose spirit children we all are. Children are the sons and daughters of God. They lived and dwelt with him for ages and eons before their mortal birth. They are adults before birth; they are adults at death. Christ himself, the Firstborn of the Father, rose to a state of glory and exaltation before he was ever suckled at Mary’s breast.

What is mortal birth?

It is the process by which mature, sentient, intelligent beings pass from preexistence into a mortal sphere. It is the process by which we bring from premortality to mortality the traits and talents acquired and developed in our long years of spirit existence. It is the process by which a mortal body is created from the dust of the earth to house an eternal spirit offspring of the Father of us all. Mortality is fully upon us when we first breathe the breath of life.

Why are we born upon this earth?

We come here to gain bodies, bodies of flesh and blood, bodies which—following the natural death—we will receive back again in immortality. Those of us who arrive at the years of accountability are here to develop and to be tried and tested, to see if we can so live as to regain the state of innocence and purity which we enjoyed as children, and thereby be qualified to go where God and Christ are.

What is original sin?

This is the false doctrine that the sin of Adam passes upon all men and that, therefore, all men—infants included—must be baptized to be saved. It is, however, a fundamental principle of true religion “that men will be punished for their own sins, and not for Adam’s transgression.” (A of F 1:2)

Are children tainted with original sin?

Absolutely not. There is no such thing as original sin as such is defined in the creeds of Christendom. Such a concept denies the efficacy of the atonement. Our revelation says: “Every spirit of man was innocent in the beginning”—meaning that spirits started out in a state of purity and innocence in preexistence—“and God having redeemed man from the fall, men became again, in their infant state, innocent before God” (D&C 93:38)—meaning that all children start out their mortal probation in purity and innocence because of the atonement. Our revelations also say, “The Son of God hath atoned for original guilt, wherein the sins of the parents cannot be answered upon the heads of the children, for they are whole from the foundation of the world.” (Moses 6:54.)

Are children conceived in sin?

Since there is no such thing as original sin, as that expression is used in modern Christendom, it follows that children are not conceived in sin. They do not come into the world with any taint of impurity whatever. When our scriptures say that “children are conceived in sin,” they are using words in an entirely different way than when the same language is recited in the creeds of the world. The scriptural meaning is that they are born into a world of sin so that “when they begin to grow up, sin conceiveth in their hearts, and they taste the bitter, that they may know to prize the good.” (Moses 6:55.)

What about infant baptism?

Few false doctrines have ever deserved and received such a vigorous and forceful denunciation as that heaped upon infant baptism by the prophet Mormon. When that inspired author inquired of the Lord concerning the baptism of little children, he was told: “Listen to the words of Christ, your Redeemer, your Lord and your God. Behold, I came into the world not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance; the whole need no physician, but they that are sick; wherefore, little children are whole, for they are not capable of committing sin; wherefore the curse of Adam is taken from them in me, that it hath no power over them.”
Thereupon Mormon, speaking by the power of the Holy Ghost, taught that “it is solemn mockery” to baptize little children; that they “are alive in Christ from the foundation of the world”; that it is awful wickedness to deny the pure mercies of Christ to them; that such a belief sets at naught the power of Christ’s redemption; that those who believe such a false concept are “in the bonds of iniquity” and if cut off while in the thought shall be thrust down to hell; and that those who humble themselves and repent and are baptized shall “be saved with their little children.” (Moro. 8:8–25.)

Are all little children saved automatically in the celestial kingdom?

To this question the answer is a thunderous yes, which echoes and re-echoes from one end of heaven to the other. Jesus taught it to his disciples. Mormon said it over and over again. Many of the prophets have spoken about it, and it is implicit in the whole plan of salvation. If it were not so the redemption would not be infinite in its application. And so, as we would expect, Joseph Smith’s Vision of the Celestial Kingdom contains this statement: “And I also beheld that all children who die before they arrive at the years of accountability are saved in the celestial kingdom of heaven.” (D&C 137:10)
It is sometimes asked if this applies to children of all races, and of course the answer is that when the revelation says all children it means all children. There is no restriction as to race, kindred, or tongue. Little children are little children and they are all alive in Christ, and all are saved by him, through and because of the atonement.
Speaking of the Prophet’s statement that all children are saved in the celestial kingdom, President Joseph Fielding Smith said: “This would mean the children of every race. All the spirits that come to this world come from the presence of God and, therefore, must have been in his kingdom. … Every spirit of man was innocent in the beginning; and all who rebelled were cast out; therefore, all who remained are entitled to the blessings of the gospel.” (Doctrines of Salvation, 2:55.)

How and why are they saved?

They are saved through the atonement and because they are free from sin. They come from God in purity; no sin or taint attaches to them in this life; and they return in purity to their Maker. Accountable persons must become pure through repentance and baptism and obedience. Those who are not accountable for sins never fall spiritually and need not be redeemed from a spiritual fall which they never experienced. Hence the expression that little children are alive in Christ. “Little children are redeemed from the foundation of the world through mine Only Begotten,” the Lord says. (D&C 29:46.)

Will they have eternal life?

Eternal life is life in the highest heaven of the celestial world; it is exaltation; it is the name of the kind of life God lives. It consists of a continuation of the family unit in eternity. We have quoted scriptures saying that children will be saved in the celestial kingdom, but now face the further query as to whether this includes the greatest of all the gifts of God—the gift of eternal life. And in the providences of Him who is infinitely wise, the answer is in the affirmative. Salvation means eternal life; the two terms are synonymous; they mean exactly the same thing. Joseph Smith said, “Salvation consists in the glory, authority, majesty, power and dominion which Jehovah possesses and in nothing else.” (Lectures on Faith, pp. 63–67.) We have come to speak of this salvation as exaltation—which it is—but all of the scriptures in all of the standard works call it salvation. I know of only three passages in all our scriptures which use salvation to mean something other and less than exaltation.
Abinadi said, “Little children also have eternal life.” (Mosiah 15:25.) Joseph Smith taught, “Children will be enthroned in the presence of God and the Lamb; … they will there enjoy the fulness of that light, glory, and intelligence, which is prepared in the celestial kingdom.” (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 200.) President Joseph Fielding Smith spoke very expressly on this point: “The Lord will grant unto these children the privilege of all the sealing blessings which pertain to the exaltation. We were all mature spirits before we were born, and the bodies of little children will grow after the resurrection to the full stature of the spirit, and all the blessings will be theirs through their obedience, the same as if they had lived to maturity and received them on the earth. The Lord is just and will not deprive any person of a blessing, simply because he dies before that blessing can be received. It would be manifestly unfair to deprive a little child of the privilege of receiving all the blessings of exaltation in the world to come simply because it died in infancy. … Children who die in childhood will not be deprived of any blessing. When they grow, after the resurrection, to the full maturity of the spirit, they will be entitled to all the blessings which they would have been entitled to had they been privileged to tarry here and receive them.” (Doctrines of Salvation, 2:54.)

Will children be married and live in the family unit?

Certainly. There can be no question about this. If they gain salvation, which is eternal life, which is exaltation, it means that they are married and live in the family unit. President Joseph Fielding Smith has so stated in plain words, and it is something that must necessarily be so. (See Doctrines of Salvation, 2:49–57.)

Why do some children die and others live? Are those who die better off than those who remain in mortality?

We may rest assured that all things are controlled and governed by Him whose spirit children we are. He knows the end from the beginning, and he provides for each of us the testings and trials which he knows we need. President Joseph Fielding Smith once told me that we must assume that the Lord knows and arranges beforehand who shall be taken in infancy and who shall remain on earth to undergo whatever tests are needed in their cases. This accords with Joseph Smith’s statement: “The Lord takes many away, even in infancy, that they may escape the envy of man, and the sorrows and evils of this present world; they were too pure, too lovely, to live on earth.” (Teachings, pp. 196–97.) It is implicit in the whole scheme of things that those of us who have arrived at the years of accountability need the tests and trials to which we are subject and that our problem is to overcome the world and attain that spotless and pure state which little children already possess.

How much do children know before their mortal birth about God and the plan of salvation?

Every person born into the world comes from the presence of God. We all saw him in that eternal world. We heard his voice. He taught us his laws. We learned about Christ and chose to follow him when he was chosen to be our Savior and Redeemer. We understood and knew the gospel plan and shouted for joy at the privilege of getting our mortal bodies as part of that great plan of salvation. Returning pure and spotless to their Maker, children—who in reality are adults—will again have that gospel knowledge which once was theirs.

Will children ever be tested?

Absolutely not! Any idea that they will be tested in paradise or during the millennium or after the millennium is pure fantasy. Why would a resurrected being, who has already come forth from the grave with a celestial body and whose salvation is guaranteed, be tested? Would the Lord test someone who cannot fail the test and whose exaltation is guaranteed? For that matter, all those billions of people who will be born during the millennium, when Satan is bound, “shall grow up without sin unto salvation” (D&C 45:58) and therefore will not be tested. “Satan cannot tempt little children in this life, nor in the spirit world, nor after their resurrection. Little children who die before reaching the years of accountability will not be tempted.” (Doctrines of Salvation, 2:56–57.) Such is the emphatic language of President Joseph Fielding Smith.

What is the age of accountability?

Accountability does not burst full-bloom upon a child at any given moment in his life. Children become accountable gradually, over a number of years. Becoming accountable is a process, not a goal to be attained when a specified number of years, days, and hours have elapsed. In our revelation the Lord says, “They cannot sin, for power is not given unto Satan to tempt little children, until they begin to become accountable before me.” (D&C 29:47.) There comes a time, however, when accountability is real and actual and sin is attributed in the lives of those who develop normally. It is eight years of age, the age of baptism. (D&C 68:27.)
This principle of accountability has been twisted and perverted and even lost at various times. It was at the root of Mormon’s inquiry to the Lord about infant baptism. (See Moro. 8.) One of our most instructive passages on the point contains the words spoken by the Lord to Abraham. “My people have gone astray from my precepts, and have not kept mine ordinances, which I gave unto their fathers,” the Lord said.
“And they have not observed mine anointing, and the burial, or baptism wherewith I commanded them;
“But have turned from the commandment, and taken unto themselves the washing of children, and the blood of sprinkling.” (JST, Gen. 17:4–6.)
Infant baptism was practiced by some even in those early days. The reason? Men no longer understood the atonement. For, as the record continues, those ancient peoples “said that the blood of the righteous Abel was shed for sins; and have not known wherein they are accountable before me.” (JST, Gen. 17:7.)
Then the Lord made this promise to Abraham: “I will establish a covenant of circumcision with thee, and it shall be my covenant between me and thee, and thy seed after thee, in their generations; that thou mayest know for ever that children are not accountable before me until they are eight years old.” (JST, Gen. 17:11.)

What about the mentally deficient?

It is with them as it is with little children. They never arrive at the years of accountability and are considered as though they were little children. If because of some physical deficiency, or for some other reason unknown to us, they never mature in the spiritual and moral sense, then they never become accountable for sins. They need no baptism; they are alive in Christ; and they will receive, inherit, and possess in eternity on the same basis as do all children.
After revealing that little children are redeemed from the foundation of the world through the atoning sacrifice of Him who died to save us all, and after specifying that Satan has no power to tempt little children until they begin to become accountable, the Lord applied the same principles to those who are mentally deficient: “And, again, I say unto you, that whoso having knowledge, have I not commanded to repent? And he that hath no understanding, it remaineth in me to do according as it is written.” (D&C 29:49–50.)

When and with what stature will children be resurrected?

Because they will receive a celestial inheritance, they will come forth in the first resurrection, President Joseph F. Smith said: “Joseph Smith taught the doctrine that the infant child that was laid away in death would come up in the resurrection as a child; and, pointing to the mother of a lifeless child, he said to her: ‘You will have the joy, the pleasure, and satisfaction of nurturing this child, after its resurrection, until it reaches the full stature of its spirit.’ There is restitution, there is growth, there is development, after the resurrection from death. I love this truth. It speaks volumes of happiness, of joy and gratitude to my soul. Thank the Lord he has revealed these principles to us.” (Gospel Doctrine, pp. 455–56.)

What is our responsibility to our children?

“Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.” (Ps. 127:3.) Our children are our Father’s children. He has entrusted them to us for a time and a season. Our appointment is to bring them up in light and truth so they will qualify to return to his Eternal Presence.
Parents in Zion have an especial responsibility for the care and well-being of the souls entrusted to them. King Benjamin summarized it in these words: “Ye will not suffer your children that they go hungry, or naked; neither will ye suffer that they transgress the laws of God, and fight and quarrel one with another, and serve the devil, who is the master of sin, or who is the evil spirit which hath been spoken of by our fathers, he being an enemy to all righteousness.
“But ye will teach them to walk in the ways of truth and soberness; ye will teach them to love one another, and to serve one another.” (Mosiah 4:14–15; see also D&C 68:25–28.)

What, then, of this glorious doctrine concerning the salvation of children?

Truly it is one of the sweetest and most soul-satisfying doctrines of the gospel! It is also one of the great evidences of the divine mission of the Prophet Joseph Smith. In his day the fiery evangelists of Christendom were thundering from their pulpits that the road to hell is paved with the skulls of infants not a span long because careless parents had neglected to have their offspring baptized. Joseph Smith’s statements, as recorded in the Book of Mormon and latter-day revelation, came as a refreshing breeze of pure truth: little children shall be saved. Thanks be to God for the revelations of his mind where these innocent and pure souls are concerned!

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

My Baby Part 3


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This Easter was Chaz's 2nd official Easter, but last year we were both still in the hospital as he was born on Good Friday. As we were eating, Chaz was sitting in his chair (happy as usual). My cousin's 18 month old daughter brought a single baby blue oversized lego over, and offered it to Chaz. Their exchanged expressions were priceless as it seemed as though their spirits recognized one another. Chaz ecstactically took the block from Sophie and played and discovered and enjoyed that one single block for several minutes.
When we are asked to become like little children, I think contemplating on such simple moments can teach so much. As adults, we tend to complain, expect, and entitle ourselves to things. What if we basked in joy at the simplest free gifts that life has to offer (trees blooming, Birds singing, children laughing)?
I am thankful for such a poignant reminder gifted to me from Chaz, Sophie, and a simple baby blue giant lego.
As I thought of this again and again, the song above came to mind. I am so thankful for my little buddy, sweetness boy, who teaches me so much. Kids are full of lessons if we are aware and we listen to them with our hearts. If we do this, the speckles of sand in our own hourglass can be filled with beauty, wonder, and life changing spiritual lessons.

My Babies part 1 & 2


I was thankful to stumble across this video today. This song came out when K'Lynn was a Baby, and she LOVED this song. Josh would play it when she was about 1, and tears would fall down her cheeks as she listened to this song. She was always moved by music, and it was so sweet as she grew older loving this song. Because of that, this song has became a motto for our 1st 2 babies, our precious girls. My biggest prayer for them is that they will always see in themselves what their Heavenly Father sees in them.